orgasm, female, g-spotI want my partner to have a good orgasm, but can’t find her G-spot.
What can I do to find it?
Your partner may not have an area she would experience as a 'G-Spot'. There have been tons of studies on the subject, and it's hard to say what and where it is - as it's a type of moving target when claims against its existence are put forth. Among current candidates for the G-for-Gräfenberg-spot are: an extension of the clitoris, a part of the female prostate - aka Skene's gland, or just a collection of sensitive tissue.
However, even if there is such an area anatomically (however hard to find), then there is no specific reason why your partner would perceive it as a 'special' area. Under questionnaires many women report not ever feeling it at all, so you digging around looking for long-lost treasure may not be a welcome event. You'd be better off giving her a good orgasm, without worrying about physicians with funny names.
That being said, if you want a map marked X:
It is typically reported to be located 2–3 inches (5.1–7.6 cm) up the front (anterior) vaginal wall between the vaginal opening and the urethra
(source: Wikipedia)
See also "Does the G-Spot exist?" on Skeptics.SE
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